Red flags in a relationship can indicate potential problems or incompatibilities that may escalate over time if not addressed. Here are some common red flags to look out for:

1. Lack of Communication: If your partner is unwilling or unable to effectively communicate with you, this can lead to misunderstandings and a breakdown in trust.
2. Controlling or Jealous Behavior: If your partner tries to control your actions or is excessively jealous, it can be a sign of deeper trust issues and a potentially unhealthy relationship.
3. Dishonesty: Trust is a cornerstone of any healthy relationship, and if your partner has a history of lying or hiding information, it may indicate deeper problems.
4. Abusive behavior: This includes physical, verbal, or emotional abuse and is never acceptable in a healthy relationship.
5. Inadequate Boundaries: If your partner is unwilling to respect your personal boundaries, it can lead to feelings of suffocation and a loss of independence.
6. Disregard for Responsibility: If your partner has a pattern of avoiding responsibility or blaming others for their problems, it can be a sign of deeper immaturity and a lack of accountability.
7. Substance abuse/Addiction: If your partner has a history of substance abuse or addiction, it can have serious consequences for your relationship and may indicate a lack of self-control.
8. Lack of Financial Commitment: When it’s difficult for either party to give freely, it becomes a problem, one person is in need, the other person is capable of helping, but finding it difficult to help, that’s a Big Red flag. Run oooo

Remember, these red flags can appear in varying degrees, and what may be a minor concern for one person may be a major issue for another. If you are experiencing any of these red flags in your relationship, it may be time to make that difficult decision.